I am a terrible person.
What do you do when the one you think you care for most, is in the edge of his or her life, due to chronic unavoidable disease?
A person with cancer, or certain blood sickness has cure right?
What if the doctor said there is chances of living for another 15 years, when usually its less than 5 years?
Unfortunately, the strength has weaken.
What kind of support should be given asides from emotional support?
If you have any experience, or know someone or has knowledge in these matter, we need to talk.
ppl with that condition dont need support. they need someone to cheer them up. laugh. out. movies. karaoke. gossips. jokes. make fun of each other will the best.
ReplyDeleteso if one day we meet them again in heaven, we have something to laugh about. again.
All they need is love and care. And it is utmost important that they are happy at the end of the day. Support is of course required for those terminally ill when they can no longer move their limbs anymore or cannot move about freely. That is when they required someone to take care of them. I have been through this before.
ReplyDeletejejaka anggun:
ReplyDeletethank you for your kind words and really helpful suggestions.. but what if that person suddenly decide to avoid you?
Reszurrecdito:
ReplyDeleteI'd like to hear more, if you don't mind sharing..
Again. Be there for them. They need extra attention and care. And of course, we need patience on handling them. Sometimes, they tend to be alone rather than surrounded by not-so-understanding people. But trust me, deep in their heart, they really want someone to be there especially when they are on down-condition.
ReplyDeleteShahrul:
ReplyDeletethanks to you too for this really useful piece of advice. i appreciate any incoming ones..